The Anal "Come Hither"

How to do it

1. Entry: Once you are relaxed and well-lubricated (using the methods in “Anal Masturbation”), insert your index or middle finger into the anus.
2. The Motion: Position your hand so your palm is facing upward (toward your belly button). Curl your finger in a steady, rhythmic beckoning motion—exactly like the “come hither” gesture used for the G-spot.
3. Pressure: Apply firm but gentle pressure against the front wall of the rectum (the side closest to your navel).
4. Escalation: Start slowly to get used to the sensation, then gradually increase the speed and intensity of the curling motion as your arousal builds toward a peak.

Why it works

The front wall of the rectum is a major “hotspot” because of what lies just on the other side of the thin rectal wall. For vulva owners, this motion stimulates the back of the A-spot and the internal structures of the clitoris. For penis owners, this is the most direct way to massage the prostate. Because this technique targets deep-seated nerve clusters, it often produces a “radiating” or “full-body” sensation that is distinct from the sharper stimulation of the clitoris or glans.