Fingering Your G-Spot

How to do it

1. Locating the Spot: Insert one or two fingers into the vagina with your palm facing upward (toward your belly button). The G-spot is typically located on the front (upper) wall, about 1–3 inches inside.
2. Texture Recognition: Feel for a patch of tissue that is slightly rougher or ridged—often described as feeling like the roof of your mouth or a “wet raspberry.”
3. The “Come Hither” Motion: Use a curling motion with your fingers, as if beckoning someone toward you. Apply firm, rhythmic pressure directly against this ridged area.
4. Managing Sensation: If you feel an intense urge to urinate, this is a sign you are successfully stimulating the G-spot area (which sits near the bladder). To make this more comfortable, empty your bladder immediately before starting.

Why it works

The G-spot (Gräfenberg spot) is an extension of the internal clitoral network. Stimulating this area triggers the paraurethral glands (Skene’s glands), which can lead to deep, “fuller” internal orgasms or female ejaculation. Because this tissue is engorged only during high arousal, the “come hither” motion provides the specific upward friction required to massage the internal clitoral bulbs and the surrounding sensitive urethral sponge.